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ABOUT BEING NEEDY AND SELF-PITYNESS

There are few things more frustrating than individuals who constantly exhibit neediness, resentment, and a tendency to employ self-pity to manipulate others into providing them with their desires. These people are not only a burden on society, but they are also unwilling to accept responsibility for their own lives.


What is worse, is that these individuals often harbor resentment towards those who have achieved success of any kind and even financial stability through their own hard work and effort. They fail to acknowledge the fact that their current position in life is a result of their own choices, and instead choose to sit back and blame others for their shortcomings.

It is important to note that success and financial stability are not just handed out for free, but are instead achieved through hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks and make sacrifices. Rather than relying on others and applying self-pity to receive what they want, these individuals should be focusing on developing their own skills and talents and taking responsibility for their own lives. However, they fail to show commitment and responsibility to improve their lives and conditions for the better.

It is time for these individuals to realize that the world does not owe them anything. They need to stop employing self-pity to manipulate others, and start taking ownership of their own lives. It is important for them to stop being resentful of those who have achieved success, and instead focus on pursuing their own goals and dreams.

All in all, individuals who exhibit neediness, resentment, and a tendency to apply self-pity to manipulate others are a hindrance to society. They need to take responsibility for their own lives and stop blaming others for their struggles. Success and financial stability are earned through hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks and make sacrifices. It is time for these individuals to take action towards their own goals, rather than relying on others to provide them with success and/or anything else so as to compensate their lack of responsibility and narrow-mindedness. 

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